One of the most frequently asked questions we hear as professional DJs is, “Do you take requests?” This simple question can spark a lot of debate among couples planning their wedding. Some people might tell you to steer clear of allowing guests to make requests on the day of your wedding, fearing that it could derail the vibe you’ve worked so hard to create. However, at The Sound Dr DJ & Photo Booth, we see things a bit differently. In this part of our "Ways to Pack the Dance Floor: Tips & Tricks" series, we’ll dive into the pros and cons of taking song requests and how you can use them to ensure your dance floor stays packed all night long.
Should You Allow Guest Requests on Your Wedding Day?
The idea of allowing guests to make song requests during your wedding can be a bit daunting. After all, you’ve spent months planning every detail, and the last thing you want is for someone to request a song that doesn’t fit the mood or disrupts the flow of the night. But here’s the thing: taking requests can actually be a great way to keep your guests engaged and ensure that the dance floor stays full.
When guests request a song, it’s often because that particular tune holds a special meaning for them or their group of friends. By playing these songs, we can tap into the emotions and memories that are attached to them, making your guests feel even more connected to the celebration. Plus, requests can be a fun way to rediscover those songs you might have forgotten about—songs that will light up the dance floor and get everyone moving.
As professional DJs, when we receive a request, we have three options: play it now, play it never, or play it when it fits the vibe. The choice depends on the conversations we’ve had with you in the lead-up to your big day. By understanding your musical tastes and the atmosphere you want to create, we can make sure that any request we fulfill enhances the experience, rather than detracting from it.
Gathering Requests Ahead of Time: The RSVP Trick
While taking requests on the day of your wedding can be a fantastic way to keep the energy high, there’s another method we love that gives you a bit more control: gathering song requests ahead of time through your RSVPs.
Including a line on your RSVP cards for guests to submit a song request is a fun and creative way to get everyone involved before the wedding even starts. It’s also an excellent opportunity to filter the songs that will be played, ensuring they align with your vision for the night. We’ve seen couples use catchy phrases like “If this song is played, you’ll find me on the dance floor!” or “I don’t dance, but if this song is played, I can’t make any promises!” This approach not only gives your guests a voice but also helps you curate a playlist that’s guaranteed to resonate with everyone.
This method is particularly great for your more introverted guests, who might not feel comfortable coming up to the DJ booth during the reception. By allowing them to share their favorite songs in advance, you’re giving them a way to participate in the fun without the pressure of a face-to-face request.
Striking the Perfect Balance
The key to making requests work for you is striking the right balance between your pre-planned playlist and the spontaneity that comes with guest requests. By combining the two, you can create a dynamic and interactive experience that keeps your guests engaged and the dance floor packed all night.
At The Sound Dr DJ & Photo Booth, we’re experts at reading the room and knowing when to play a requested song or when to save it for later (or not play it at all). We work closely with you to design the perfect party, ensuring that every song played contributes to the energy and flow of your special day.
Remember, whether you embrace guest requests or prefer the professional to do it alone, our goal is to help you create an unforgettable celebration that reflects your unique style and keeps the dance floor alive.
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